I have taken a closer look at the info on my 23andMe match with my known 1st cousin. It says we share 360 Centimorgans, and the Centimorgan charts I've looked at suggest this is potentially outside the "normal" range of a 1st cousin.

I know this falls outside of what seems to be accepted as the "normal" range for a 1st cousin match, and that it would seem genetically more likely she's my half 1st cousin, but a bit of context:

My uncle, whose daughter is my cousin, was conceived around the time my grandparents married. My granddad was 20 and my gran just turned 17, and he was their first child and my granddad her first boyfriend (as far as we know). It seems highly implausible that there was any infidelity involved given they had literally just got married when my uncle was conceived.

Could this simply be a weird case of how DNA is passed on, and we just happen to have inherited less DNA than typical cousins? Could it have anything to do with the fact we didn't inherit the same X DNA (except for a tiny little piece)?

I've attached an image of our shared DNA. enter image description here

  • Do you reckon it could be to do with the greyed out bits that say "not enough information"? – Charlie Jan 28 at 23:15
  • Could the same be possible in a Grandfather relationship? I got results back that show that I share 925 cM with my Mother's Father. That is lower than the normal expected cM shared with a grandparent but is it possible? – Lyndsay Rose Bradley Apr 18 at 23:24
  • @LyndsayRoseBradley You may wish to ask a new question, and link to this one as a reference, if you need to. – PolyGeo Apr 20 at 22:55

This website presents information from a simulation study of first cousin DNA matches done by an expert statistician, Philip Gammon.


The first graphic shows the distribution of centimorgans among 200,000 (simulated) first cousin matches. The height of each bar gives the chances of each category of centimorgans among (true) first cousins. The range of centimorgans is from the category 250-275 centimorgans to 1600-1625 centimorgans for (true in the simulation) first cousin. As seen in the figure, these categories are rare—not many first cousins share this few (250-275) or this many (1600-1625) centimorgans, but the simulations shows that even these extreme values can occur for true first cousins.

As described at this website:

“Academically calculated expectations suggest first cousins should share 850 cM. The data collected by Blaine showed an actual average of 874 cM, but varied within a 99th percentile range of 553 to 1225 cM utilizing 1512 respondents.”

The use of the word “should share 850 cM” is misleading. It would be more correct to state that “on average” first cousins share 850 cM. Further, using the 99th percentiles for the academically calculated expectations, 99% of first cousins DNA matches will be from 553 to 1225 Cm. But that means that, even using the academically calculated data on 1512 respondents, 1% of first cousins will have less than 553 shared centimorgans or more than 1225 shared centimorgans.

In the description of the data from the simulation of 200,000 first cousin matches, Philip Gammon, the statistician, further states that:

”At the lower end I have 787 events (about 0.4%) with fewer than 510 shared cM and a minimum of 272 cM.”

The finding that you and your first cousin share only 360 centimorgans is very unusual but it is not impossible. It is at the extreme lower end of the probability distribution of shared centimorgans for first cousins.

The second graphic shows the (simulated) distribution of shared centimorgans considering the sex of the siblings who are the parents of the first cousins.

“First cousins whose fathers were brothers are about two and a half times as likely to either share less than 8% or more than 17% than first cousins whose mothers were sisters.”

It is not completely clear from the post whether you and your first cousin had fathers who were brothers. If your father and your first cousin’s father were brothers, then being in a “tail” of the distribution of shared centimorgans is even more understandable.

The post asks the question:

“Could this simply be a weird case of how DNA is passed on, and we just happen to have inherited less DNA than typical cousins?”

Both the empiric data and the simulation results suggest that the answer is “yes” although weird may not be entirely


The Shared cM Project 4.0 tool v4 advice for 360cM suggests that 360cM is too low for a full first cousin because 1C does not appear amongst the relationships with greater than 0% probability.

For full first cousins a match in the range of 396 to 1397 (average 866) cM is to be expected.

  • Simply don't see how that's possible though. My gran had just turned 18 when she married my granddad, he was her first boyfriend. They actually got married just after my uncle was conceived. My cousin is his daughter. This would imply my uncle is not my grandfather's son, but he is. They even look like. – Charlie Jan 28 at 0:37
  • The alternative being my mother is not the daughter of my granddad, which is equally impossible since I have a DNA match to my granddad's cousin. – Charlie Jan 28 at 1:02
  • I think you should wait for more answers. Mine is only that of someone with an amateur interest in relationship analysis using autosomal DNA. – PolyGeo Jan 28 at 1:45
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    @shoover my granddad was an only child. – Charlie Jan 28 at 20:49
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    The only way to get a better answer and not just guesses is by testing more of your family. Your mother and your uncle in particular as well as your grandparents if they are still alive. – Peter Kühne Jan 29 at 11:01

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